Day 3

Today was Day 3 of my six months of sobriety. I was putting it off and putting it off because being a “good boy” gets kind of boring sometimes. I know it’s necessary sometimes and I know it’s good for me and I know I get a lot done and save money and a bunch of other good stuff happens but I’m so used to being me it makes it a little hard to start. The plan is to be as good as I can and then have a huge celebration on my birthday. Only problem is my birthday falls on a Monday. I have some pretty good party friends but none of them are down to do it BIG on a Monday so I planned everything for the following Friday. I’ve done this type of thing many times before so I’m pretty used to it all and it’s about this time (3 day mark) that I start to reflect on all the things that have happened since my last bout with sobriety. See some people think I’m a bit TOO MUCH fun when I’m being me but those people are lame and what a lot of these people forget is I’m from Arizona and spent four years of my life living in Las Vegas so for me having a good time is second nature. I know AZ and LV aren’t the only two places in the country/world like this. I’ve traveled quite a bit and partied in a lot of states (as well as Australia and Mexico) as a matter of fact WITH a lot of YOU ;-) The only thing I don’t like about my “breaks” is that a lot of people act like I’m not being fun because I’m not drinking. While, yes, I may be a bit more loud and obnoxious when I’m drinking the fact that I’m sober and a bit more reserved doesn’t mean I’m not having a good time and DEFINITELY doesn’t mean I’m judging what the people around me do. The truth is I’m usually having a good time when I’m out, even sober, I just don’t express myself in the same way. I don’t even know why people let these things bother them at all. As hard as it may be to believe I usually only get drink once a week even when I’m “on”. Some weeks I don’t get to at all. My life is pretty busy and has been for at least the last four years now and I don’t drink and drive not only because you SHOULDN’T but because LA doesn’t let  you leave your car anywhere and Phoenix is so big/laws are so tough there you’re practically asking for a DUI if you drink even a little bit and drive so I just don’t really get to do it like that. Anyway, my point is, life is good and I’m happy with the decision I made. If you really consider yourself to be my friend or even just like what I do then support me on this one, congratulate me on my progress every once in a while and CELEBRATE with me when it’s all said and done. Hope you all have a better than lovely Friday and Goodnight <3

Posted by: Thai on August 3, 2012 @ 6:02 am
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  • monique mendez

    Well said Thai your a great person who doesn’t need alcohol to make u even more great….live love laugh …..;)

  • Dave Caldwell

    Thai,
    I almost felt like I could have been writing this post. I’m a lot the same way. Sometimes when I go out I choose not to drink and I get so pissed off when people feel the need to comment about it or make a big deal about or it or say I’m boring simply because I’m not drinking. It gets so frustrating. I tell people to mind their own f**king business and worry about their own drinking and not whether or not I’m drinking. I totally feel ya! And, good luck!

  • http://www.patrickjervis.com Patrick Jervis-Stone

    This is great! I support you and think it’s great. Wishing you the most success in everything you do. I have some friends and my husband that drink or rarely drink and have fun just the same. I just usually the one that is drunk and foolish. LOL — anyway. You’re great and wishing the best.

  • Edward

    I listen to a lot of XM and heard you this afternoon. You are terrific. That being said, congratulations on making 6 months (probably 7 at this writing). Keep it up you, are giving me hope.

  • http://www.thairivera.com Thai

    Hey guys, sorry I haven’t responded to everyone. My email notifications apparently didn’t come through. Thanks so much for all the comments. Edward thanks for mentioning XM from what I hear they’ve been playing quite a bit and I’m definitely happy and thankful for that. I’m reaching the month and half mark for my not drinking and appreciate you saying I’m giving you hope. Be strong and don’t let people get in your head :-)

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100003407142703 Jero

    it worked quite a bit for me. i’ll drink more water turghohout the day and it’ll make me eat less since i’m full of water. i also drink a lot of water while i’m eating so i don’t over eat. but don’t drink TOO much water cause it can be bad for you. 6-8 full glasses a day is good for me. i also work out and eat some kind of protein after wards. i don’t drink protein shakes. i believe in going all natural. but eating protein bars, granola bars, or fruits turghohout the day help keep my metabolism up as well.good luck!